25 August 2018

How to get what you want

We all have those dreams, those wishes, where we know what we want. The way between wishing, dreaming and actually achieving is not always that easy. There's a big difference between knowing what you want and eventually achieving it. You have to be able to work hard no matter what. You'll have to believe in yourself and never give up. I thought of some things which might help you to make the road to get to your dreams a little easier.

Having a positive mindset is the key to have a successful life. Have big dreams and believe in yourself that you're able to achieve them. Have an open mindset and look out of the box. Don't waste time at limiting yourself.

The first thing to do when you know what you want is to create a plan to achieve this. When you write this down, things will become more clear and easier.

Don't be afraid to ask the help of other people. I always thought that when I wanted something to do for myself, I really had to do it by myself. And this is so wrong. Remind yourself that it's ok to ask help, to let people into your life, to listen to advice etc. At the end of the day, it's your life and when you achieved something, it is because you did everything (including searching for help) to reach your goal.

Small steps
If you want something to change, it doesn't have to be very drastic right away. Take small steps, small changes everyday. And eventually all these small changes can become huge together.

Accept 'failures'
It's not because you've created that perfect plan at the beginning, that you will automatically follow this without any complications. Things can turn out definitely than you thought, but that's just how it is. Remind yourself that if you wouldn't have tried it in the first place, you would still be nowhere. Learn from the mistakes you've made and go on from that. Search after new ways to achieve that goals you have.

Like I've said before, there is a way between wishing and achieving. When you've set a plan with steps to reach your goal, you should celebrate it when you finished every single step. It doesn't matter how big or small, celebrate the successes you've had along the way. It will keep you positive and motivated.

Surround yourself with people who also have a positive mindset, or goals they want to achieve. Motivate each other. Let go of the people who are bringing you down or who are taking a lot of the energy you could better use for yourself.

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